A meeting memo has one job: to let someone who was in the room — or someone who wasn't — act on what was agreed without sending a follow-up question. That is a higher bar than most memos clear. Most read like a tidied-up version of the discussion, which feels useful to write and turns out to be nearly useless a week later.
The fix is not longer notes. It is knowing what to capture, and in what order. Below is the list to run through in the ten minutes after the meeting breaks, before the details start to blur. Print it, pin it near your desk, or keep it at the front of your notebook.
The four essentials
Almost every memo that gets ignored is missing at least one of these:
- Decisions — what was settled, stated as a fact rather than a debate.
- Owners — one named person per action.
- Deadlines — a specific date, written in full.
- Open questions — what is still unresolved, and who is chasing it.
The agenda, the attendee list and the background are supporting material. Useful, but secondary. Get the four above right and your memo still does its job.
Decisions: write sentences, not summaries
Compare these two lines:
There was a long discussion about the client review schedule.
Decision: the client review moves to the first Tuesday of each month, starting 4 March, so the whole team can attend.
Only the second one can be acted on. Write decisions in the active voice, with a clear verb, and keep the reasoning to a single clause. If the context matters later, add one line underneath — no more, or the memo turns back into an argument.
If nothing was decided, say so plainly: “No decision reached on the supplier contract; back on the agenda for 21 March.” That one sentence stops the same conversation happening twice. Leaving the point out is worse, because people will assume it was settled.
Owners: one name, not a team
“The marketing team” is not an owner. “Everyone” is definitely not an owner. List three people next to an action and the usual outcome is that nobody starts it. Name one person. If the work genuinely splits, split the action into two lines with two names.
A small courtesy saves a lot of friction: tell people what you are about to put their name against before the memo goes out. A five-line message — “I’m noting you for the pricing sheet by the 14th, is that right?” — takes seconds and avoids the reply-all correction. It also catches the case where someone agreed to something in the room they cannot actually deliver.
Deadlines: a date, not an intention
“Soon”, “next sprint”, “before the end of the quarter” and “ASAP” all mean the same thing: nobody knows when this is due.
Write the date in full — Monday 17 March — rather than 17/03, which a good share of your readers will read as a different month altogether. If a date cannot be agreed, capture the next best thing: the date by which someone will confirm the date. “Dan to confirm the delivery date by Friday 7 March” is a real commitment. “Dan to look into timescales” is a wish.
Where you can, note who is waiting on what. An action that blocks someone else deserves a mention: “Sophie can’t book the venue until the headcount is confirmed.”
Open questions, risks and parked items
Not everything needs a decision. Some things need to be recorded as unfinished, and the memo is the right place for them. Keep a short section at the bottom covering:
- questions nobody could answer in the room
- risks raised but not addressed
- topics deliberately parked for a later meeting
For each one, add who is picking it up and when they will report back. An open question with a name next to it is a piece of work. An open question without a name is a loose end that reappears in three weeks as a mild crisis.
Before you send: the printable checklist
Run down this list once, in order. It takes about two minutes.
- Does the subject line carry the meeting name and date?
- Are attendees and apologies listed?
- Is every decision written as a sentence in the active voice?
- Does every action have exactly one owner?
- Does every action have a full date, or a date to confirm a date?
- Are open questions, risks and parked items listed separately?
- Have you removed opinions, scores and anything said in confidence?
- Do the names match the spelling people use themselves?
- Have you checked the memo against your own notes for anything dropped?
- Does it say where the memo lives and what happens next?
The seventh point is the one people skip. A memo is a record, not a review. If someone spoke bluntly about a colleague’s work, that belongs in your private notes, not in a document that gets forwarded around the building.
Send it while the room is still warm
Aim to send the same day, ideally within an hour or two. The longer you leave it, the more you will start tidying the wording and second-guessing what was actually said. A slightly plain memo that arrives at three in the afternoon beats a polished one that lands on Thursday.
Read it back once before you hit send. If a sentence sounds like a summary of a conversation, rewrite it as a decision, an action or a question. Then file it somewhere everyone can find it — a shared folder, a project page, a running document per project — so the next meeting starts from what was agreed rather than from memory. That habit, more than any clever note-taking method, is what makes a memo worth trusting.
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